Welcome 2011

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31 December seems to go hand in hand with pressure to finish off the outstanding niggling tasks, clean the house, better yourself, and do everything that we "should" be doing.

I decided a while ago that I wouldn't make new year's resolutions, because if I really want to do it, I would rather just start now, but this year is slightly different - mainly because I have been toying with the concept for a little while, and because I believe that it is a necessary step to getting closer to my ultimate goals.

So, in the spirit of the season, I've cleaned the house, organised the paperwork, changed the linen and planted some seeds in the garden. Having a 2-year old pretty much nixes my party plans for the evening, which is just fine - I don't like travelling on New Year's Eve. I have a bottle of champagne to share with my husband later and my new year's resolution is (*drum roll please*) to step out of my comfort zone.

I intend to stretch my comfort levels this year and just put myself out there. I don't really mind about the outcomes, so long as I practice being in situations that are going to encourage growth.
So, whether you are a believer in NY Resolutions, or prefer not to commit yourself to a resolution, I wish you a fantastic 2011.. with love, laughter, fabulous people, and enough growth opportunities to keep you stimulated and engaged!

Quoting Oprah Winfrey: ‎"Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right."

Happy 2011!

Off the comfort couch

I haven't written in a while.  I have a tendency to focus on one thing at a time (if I can help it), and I have made a commitment to stepping out of my comfort zone.  This week I have been asking for discounts.  I've been particularly cheeky about it, too.  Personally, I have never liked asking for discounts.  Come to think of it, asking for anything makes me squirm. 

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That said, I am asking for discounts in a non-apologetic, nice way.  And surprise, surprise, I'm GETTING them!  It's a wonderful learning - firstly that people are accommodating and helpful by nature, and that they want to have a pleasant encounter; secondly, the way that I put things out there greatly affects what I get back. 

I quite like it - it is a way of reaching out to other people and benefitting.. I don't mind if I don't get a discount, I'm just feeling pleased that I've asked.. the actual discount feels a little like a bonus!

I am keen to hear about other suggestions for stepping out of my comfort zone.  So far, the experience has been a great one!